when he turned to greet me, his shock was evident. "and so have you, but not taller!" he blurted out, and both my elder brother and my father laughed aloud. after a painful moment, i joined in.

"but not for long," i promised him. "i've been fasting for the last three days. i've resolved to take this off as quickly as i put it on."

my father shook his head dolefully. "i doubt it, nevare. i hate to say it, but you don't look a bit thinner to me. i fear it will take more than three days of fasting. have a bite now, to get you through the start of the day. can't have you fainting at your brother's wedding!" again they all laughed at me.

his remarks stung me, for all that they were true. nevertheless, his tone was affable, for the occasion had sweetened his mood. i swallowed the hurt, resolving not to say or do anything that might reawaken his displeasure with me.

i found eggs, meat, bread, fruit, and milk set up on the sideboard. the sight and smell of the food dizzied me. my discipline might have failed me if my father had not been frowning over every morsel i put on my plate. i felt as furtive as a wild animal stealing food. i put a piece of toast on my plate, glanced at my father, and added two small sausages. i took up the spoon for the scrambled eggs. a small frown creased his brow. i took a tiny serving. i decided i would risk his wrath by adding one other item.

it was an agonizing decision. i finally settled on a serving of apple compote. the aroma of the warm, sugary fruit almost made me swoon. i filled a mug with hot black coffee and took my feast to the table. i wanted to fill my mouth with huge bites of food. i wanted to feel the substance of chewing and swallowing a mouthful of eggs and spicy sausage heaped on crisp buttered toast. instead, i forced myself to divide my meal into small bites and eat it very slowly. i filled my coffee mug twice, hoping the hot liquid would help satisfy my hunger. yet when my plate was scraped clean of the last crumb, my body still clamored for more. i took a deep breath and pushed my chair back from the table. i would not starve, i told myself severely. this discipline of tiny meals would not last forever, only until i had regained my previous state. besides, there would be a feast following the wedding today, and i must partake of that to avoid giving offense to the bride's family. such thoughts were consolation.

i glanced up to find rosse and vanze pointedly not looking at me. my father was regarding me with distaste. "if you are finished, nevare, perhaps we can depart for your brother's wedding?"

they had been waiting for me while i stretched out my meal. a flush of shame rose to my face. "yes. i'm finished." i followed them from the room, full of loathing for myself and anger at them.

the carriage awaited us, festooned with wedding garlands. my mother and sisters were already inside. blankets draped them to keep the dust away from their carefully arranged dresses. there were seven of us in the family, and at any time that would have meant a crowded ride. today, with the voluminous gowns the women wore and my voluminous body, it was a hopeless fit. before i could volunteer, my father said, "nevare, you will ride with the coachman."

it was humiliating to climb up to my seat while they watched. the seams of my new trousers strained, and i could only hope that the stitches would hold. the driver, dressed all in bright blue for the occasion, looked directly forward, as if by gazing at me he might share my shame. my father and brothers managed to fit themselves into the carriage, the door was closed, and we were away at last.

it was a morning's ride to the poronte estate. for most of the journey, we followed the road along the river, but for the last hour and a half the carriage jolted and bumped along a lesser road that wound its way into the heart of the poronte lands. lord poronte had built his manor on an immense upthrust of stone. it commanded a wide view of all the plains and reminded me more of a citadel than a gentleman's home. rumor said that he was still in debt to the stonemasons who had come from cartem to erect the thick rock walls of his mansion. lord poronte had taken the motto "stone endures," and it was etched into a stone arch that framed the entry to his grounds.

when i look back at my brother's wedding day, my memory shies like a badly trained horse. i felt that every person who greeted me betrayed a jolt of shock at my appearance. at first sight of me, lord poronte pursed his lips as if he were trying to restrain a lively goldfish in his mouth. his lady actually lifted a hand to smother a giggle and then quickly excused herself, saying that she must assist the bride in her final preparations. i both felt and saw my family's embarrassment.

a servant led us upstairs, while others followed with the ladies' luggage. a suite of rooms had been set aside for my family to freshen ourselves after our journey and where the girls and my mother could change from their traveling dresses into their wedding clothes. we men more quickly put ourselves to rights. my father and brothers were eager to descend and join the festive gathering. i followed with trepidation.