Chapter 190
Snow fine see Huang said, unexpectedly began to wipe tears, the expression on the face also can't help calm down.
In other words, their family really seems to have no relatives here.
Her father is obviously not the son of old Xia and his wife, but her mother doesn't even have a family.
In this way, my family really does not have any authentic relatives.
No wonder her mother was upset.
Xia Laicai is so noisy that her mother must have the feeling of "once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of well rope".
Sure enough, Huang's next sentence said: "the reason why my mother thinks that Zhang's marriage is good is that Zhang's family knows the root and the bottom of the family after all. Tietou is also my mother's childhood. I'm not afraid to be cheated when I want to get married..."
Huang said with a sigh, and then said, "although Aunt Zhang is miscalculant and shrewd, it's not easy for a widow to pull a son. It won't work if she doesn't..."
Huang, who was also a widow, began to put herself in the position of widow Zhang.
Xueqing secretly shakes her head. It seems that her mother and widow Zhang are in the same boat.
However, snow fine no longer speak, simply let her mother put in the mind of the idea to say, and then she think about countermeasures.
For tietou, Xueqing has no prejudice.
She just resented the way Zhang's mother and son did.
If what her mother said was entirely reasonable, and her elder sister agreed, she would certainly not impose obstacles.
Huang talked for widow Zhang, then looked at Yu Ting and said, "you've been gentle since you were a child. If you meet a tricky mother-in-law or a sister-in-law, you can't help but suffer losses..."
Huang said, and became serious.
"The population of Zhang Jia is simple. There is no big sister-in-law or little sister-in-law to stir up trouble. There is only one mother-in-law to wait on. On the contrary, life is easy and comfortable. Besides, in our own village, my mother can look at it and help you..."
Snow fine hear Huang Shi say so, suddenly feel also very reasonable.
In recent years, because the cap of filial piety oppresses people, we all pursue the principle of "parents are here, no family separation".
When parents are willing to have their children and grandchildren together, it is obvious that there are many families, so there is no extremely special situation, and they are not separated.
Therefore, most families are brothers, sisters in law, eldest sister-in-law and younger sister-in-law living together.
You think, so many people together, that stumbling, right and wrong less?
Of course, my family used to be an example.
When Xueqing heard Huang's words, she knew that Huang also had deep feelings about it.
Who let Huang be suppressed by her mother-in-law and bullied by her sister-in-law and sister-in-law?
In this way, the marriage of Zhang Jia really has its merits.
At least the population of Zhangjia is simple and close.
Snow fine looking at Huang, feel at this point, ginger or old spicy, or her mother think more.
Huang continued: "well, you don't know that it's more worrying to find a mother-in-law for a daughter than to marry a daughter-in-law for a son. After all, the daughter-in-law is married back and looks at it in front of her own eyes. What's wrong can be taught slowly, but the daughter is going to marry someone else's home. How's life going? Is it comfortable... "
Huang said here, once again wipe tears.
And he said intermittently: -- Your father is gone, and your brother is If you get angry at your mother-in-law's house in the future, she doesn't even have a person to stand out for you. When she thinks about this, she'll be worried... "
Huang Shi said, unexpectedly sobbed.
Huang thought that he not only had no man, but also his eldest son was stupid, his youngest son was young, and his mother-in-law family couldn't accommodate him. He always thought of ways to calculate his family. If his daughters had something to do in the future, they would never be able to count on it.
Such a thought, Huang's heart needle prick the same uncomfortable.
Rain Ting see Huang sad, also followed to cry.
"Niang, if you think Zhang's marriage is good, just come down. Your daughter will listen to you." Rain Ting side cry, side said.
Snow fine in the heart also some affliction.
She understood that, let alone in this era, even in modern times, these situations her mother considered also exist.
Xueqing had never considered these before, because she had never planned to get married in her last life, and there was no such family atmosphere for her to worry about.
What's more, she used to believe in speaking with strength, fist and wisdom.
But now, after listening to Huang's words, Xueqing has to admit that her mother's worries are reasonable.
Rain Ting temperament is too soft, such temperament is not to mention the mother-in-law, is met with a few mean sister-in-law, will definitely eat dark loss.
What's more, this is an age when men are superior to women. Men can have three wives and four concubines, and even eat, drink, whore and gamble openly.what the fuck! Think of these, snow fine also had a kind of contradiction in mind that Huang married a daughter.
I don't feel at ease about marrying my elder sister to someone else.
Xueqing even ran out of the end of Jia Yingchun in a dream of Red Mansions.
Snow fine one excites spirit, quickly shook head.
She's really out of her mind to think about it.
However, for Yu Ting's marriage, Xue Qing hesitated.
Maybe her mother is really right. The marriage of Zhang Jia is really good.
Whether she is tietou or widow Zhang, she should not treat her elder sister badly.
Just -
What about feelings?
Does her elder sister have feelings for tietou?
In fact, Xueqing knows that many people in this age are blind and dumb, and it's too luxurious to talk about feelings before marriage.
However, Xueqing still hopes that her elder sister can marry someone she likes.
Xueqing once made up her mind to let her family have a good life.
This good day for her elder sister, of course, includes marrying a good husband.
Thinking of this, Xueqing looked at Huang and said, "Niang, you are right. This marriage of Zhang Jia is really good."
Xueqing said here, tone changed and said: "but my elder sister's marriage, we are not anxious, grow up orderly, or wait for my brother's marriage settled, and then discuss my elder sister's marriage."
Huang's listen to snow fine so say, wiped to wipe tears, nodded.
"Well, my mother originally wanted to wait for your brother's marriage to be settled, and then discuss it with your sister." Huang said.
The rain Ting listened to snow fine and Huang's words, didn't say what.
However, the marriage was affirmed by Xueqing. Huang's heart seemed to have a backbone. He put down a big stone in his heart and relaxed a lot. He felt relieved.
Huang's own has not realized, snow fine this daughter, in her heart's status, already more and more important.