Chapter 266
Smell speech, Su Qing bowed his head and hesitated for a while, then said: "good."
After that, she pushed the cart to sister Yu and said, "sister Yu, please take care of spring, spring and winter for me."
"Good." Sister Yu nodded, and then took Dongdong in one hand and pushed the trolley to the side for a stroll.
Su Qing knows that although she doesn't want to meet Guan Dushen again, there are two children between them. No matter now or in the future, they will raise the two children together, so contact is inevitable. Su Qing has realized this from a long time ago.
Guan Dushen turns and sits on the row chair, while Su Qing chooses to sit at the other end of the row chair, which is about half a meter away from him.
"You and Qizheng When's your wedding? " Guan Dushen hesitated for a while and asked hard.
"Three days later." Su Qing replied.
Smell speech, Guan evening deep wrung eyebrow, after all still way: "Su Qing, you are again careful consideration?"
"What do you mean?" Su Qing's sharp eyes look at Guan Dushen and feel disgusted with his words.
Guan Dushen naturally felt her antipathy, but still tried to persuade her. "After all, there are two children between us. Even if it's not for me, I hope you can seriously consider that your marriage with Guan Qizheng will certainly affect the growth of the children..."
Hearing this, Su Qing already understood Guan Dushen's meaning, so she immediately interrupted him and said, "Guan Dushen, I will not change my decision to marry Qizheng. Chunchun has been taken care of by him since he was born. Although Chunchun is not by your side, she still enjoys his father's love. This father's love is given to her by Guan Qizheng. Therefore, marriage between Guan Qizheng and me is beneficial to Chunchun, but Dongdong is sensible. I think he will adapt to it slowly. "
Hearing Su Qing say so firmly, Guan Dushen's eyes are very painful, but it doesn't help. At the moment, he deeply feels that things are often out of his control, and he can't do anything in front of the world.
"I know I'm sorry for you and Chunchun, and I'm sorry for Dongdong. It's my fault that he didn't enjoy his mother's love." The road of deep self reproach.
"You don't owe me anything, and I don't owe you anything. You and I are not the same person, and we can't get together in the future. Spring, winter and winter are your bones and flesh. You can compensate them as much as you can in the future. " Although Su Qing said so, her voice was choked for a time.
Thinking about those difficult days in the past, thinking about the difficulties in winter and winter, and spring, she felt that it was really not easy for her to come to this day.
Seeing the moist in Su Qing's eyes, Guan Dushen's heart was violently pulled for a moment.
He put his hand into his pocket and held his handkerchief. However, seeing her heartless eyes, he still did not take the handkerchief out. He only felt that his chest was pressed by a stone, which made people suffocate.
The next moment, Su Qing sorted out her emotions and said, "I feel like we still need to talk about how to raise winter and spring."
Dongdong and Chunchun are children with parents. Su Qing has thought for a long time. She doesn't want to be selfish and deprive children of the right to enjoy their parents' love. Therefore, she wants two children to have their parents' love at the same time. However, she and Guan Dushen can't get back together. Therefore, it is necessary to discuss a reasonable rearing plan.
"What do you think?" Guan Mu asked deeply.
Su Qing hesitated for a moment, then said: "my idea is not mature, I want to ask for your opinion. Now Dongdong is in kindergarten. Dongdong needs both his mother and his father. So I wonder if it is possible for Dongdong to be on your side from Monday to Friday and come to me on Saturday and Sunday? "
"As you say." I think a little bit later.
Seeing that he agreed, Su Qing said, "as for Chunchun, she is too young now. She still needs more care from her mother. So I want Chunchun to continue to live with me. When you miss her, just come to see her, or you have time to take her out for a long time. I don't know what you think? "
This is the plan that Su Qing put forward after deep thought these two days. She thinks that it should be the best for the two children.
Guan Mu thought deeply for a while, then said: "at this stage, I agree with you. Now the children are still young, so it can only be so. But when the children are a little older, I hope that spring and winter can live with me. Usually you can come to see the children at any time. On weekends, you can take them out for half a day."
Hearing this, Su Qing immediately had a fire. "Guan Dushen, are you trying to dominate my two children?"
Of course, she can't accept this statement. Winter and winter are better. Chunchun was brought up by her childhood. How could she let Chunchun live with Guan Dushen? Isn't that equal to hollowing out your heart all at once? How can she stand it if she doesn't have one of the two children living with her for a long time?
Seeing Su Qing excited, Guan Dushen is still calm as usual. "Su Qing, you may not be able to accept it for a while, but if you think about it, after you and Guan Qizheng are married, you are bound to have your own children. At that time, you can't treat our children wholeheartedly. After all, the children are not the same father and mother. They may also have estrangement in the future. Guan Qizheng is not a saint. He will certainly love his children most in the complex family atmosphere It's not good for children's growth"The government will not choose between one and the other." Su Qing's firm way.
On hearing this, Guan Dushen sneered: "Guan Qizheng is not as good as you think. Human nature is selfish."
Hearing this, Su Qing looked at Guan Dushen with disgust and said, "Guan Dushen, Qizheng will become my husband soon. I ask you not to slander him in front of me!"
Su Qing used a very heavy tone. Guan Dushen narrowed his eyes and said, "OK, we won't talk about him, but what I'm talking about is the reality that every reorganized family must face. I don't think you should understand it without me saying more."
Su Qing knows that Guan Dushen is right. Many children who are single parents or reorganized families are not mentally healthy. She and Su Zi are also single parents. Naturally, the hardships are more obvious than others.
But she believes in Guan Qizheng. Even if they have children in the future, he won't be bad for spring and winter. But the children will grow up slowly, and there will be many problems in the future. For example, Dongdong is crying for her not to marry Guan Qizheng, which is also her most distressed place.
The next moment, Su Qing asked Guan Dushen with a sneer. "When it's too late, you'll get married and have children with other women, so you're not qualified to say that to me!"
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