Chapter 664
My aunt smiled and said quietly:
"Yeah, even if you wait a few more years, you can still get married. But if you get married, can you still have children? Now women have children, but it's not like we were at that time. Now the older ones have weaker fertility."
Although what my aunt said made people feel uncomfortable.
But it's true.
Think about my own daughter, who is so young, and finally chose assisted reproduction.
This world is not fair enough for women.
Age is even less friendly to women.
Now women want to realize their self-worth, and you have used your youth to fight hard.
Have a certain social status and economic ability.
But your body is going downhill every year.
Before marriage, the issue of future generations and children will not be considered.
Once married, it is bound to plan to have children.
Women, no matter when you are, no matter how successful you are, you will inevitably be troubled by these things.
Aunt then said:
"Where do girls dare to waste their age with male dolls? People say that men in their 70s and 80s can have children, but what about women? They go through menopause around the age of 50. In this environment, there are many people with ovarian aging in their 30s. "
"So girls have to urge to get married and have children earlier, procrastinating. People won't dislike you for being old, but can you still have children?"
Mother Su immediately interrupted Auntie, why are you talking more and more vigorously?
"Girls nowadays, having children is not the only way to live. Who doesn't make money now? Who doesn't have a job? Earn money and spend it on your own. If you want to get married, you can find like-minded people. If you want children, you have to work hard to have them. The most difficult thing, now that science is so advanced, Is it possible to have a child?"
Aunt laughed and said:
"How much hardship does that woman have to suffer?"
Mother Su's expression was not very good, and she answered the conversation immediately.
"After all, not all women are unable to have children. All older women have to use assisted reproduction. There are also news about women in their fifties and sixties who have children."
Su Nianen fished out the fish and gave it to Xiao Fubao to crush and eat.
Seeing that mother and aunt were about to blush, they immediately changed the topic.
she asked:
"Auntie, what's the matter with you coming to see my mother?"
In fact, everyone doesn't want to fight to get red-faced, but when it comes to this point, it's easy to go too far if no one gives in to anyone.
When Su Nianen reminded my aunt, she immediately changed her attitude.
I regretted it very much in my heart, she came to Yuan Hui for something, what is she arguing with others?
If you say a word, you will die?
My aunt immediately said:
"Hey, it's just because of your big cousin."
My aunt smiled and looked at Mother Su again, "You're right, girls now hold up half the sky. Without women in this society, where can we go?"
Mother Su's eyes were indifferent, yes, this is something I asked for.
My aunt changed the subject and said immediately:
"Zhizong is the most outstanding child of our old Yuan family, you don't want to see him spend his life in such a muddle, do you?"
"He's only in his thirties, and he's still very young."
"In the past, he was asked to look for him, and he focused on his work. His other colleagues and classmates either got married and had a family after graduation, or, like him, hey!"
Su Mu replied in a cold tone.
"He has the idea of ??starting a family now. It's better than not thinking about it for the rest of his life. You introduced it to him, but he wouldn't want it. He has his own ideas and arrangements, and it's useless for you to worry about it."
My aunt was in a hurry and was very angry.
"Then just look at him in a daze?"
"That's not the case. If the woman is too bad, Zhizong will look down on her."
It's not my business, so Mother Su's mood is much calmer.
Who wouldn't stand by and watch other people's affairs?
Mother Su actually felt sorry for this nephew from the bottom of her heart.
Such a decent job, if you look for it with your eyes closed, you can find a good partner.
But he just didn't look for it, and in the end, he met a...
It's not that they are not good, but the second marriage also brought a child, so it's a lot of trouble.
The eldest nephew is not married yet, and he has no relationship experience.
He is an excellent person, and he was still in the research institute before.
After all, it is also the elite group of society, the wave of the smart top.
The aunt snorted coldly: "Ah Hui, it didn't happen to you. You don't feel back pain when you stand and talk."
Su's mother answered abruptly:
"I'm sitting here."
"..."
My aunt sighed, "I'm not kidding, Ah Hui, we are all parents, and we spend our whole lives worrying about hard work, not just for the sake of our children? You really want to piss me off when you say Zhizong!"
Mother Su: "Think about your own persistence at the beginning, and then think about the children's choices. You should also understand them."
"Sometimes, I think it's better to give birth to two girls. Raising two sons is a lifetime of worrying, and he still doesn't remember your kindness. Look at you now, you are enjoying the blessings. You are the most comfortable in our family. .”
My aunt sighed, "Even if the second child is ignorant, they are still obedient. As long as you are obedient, you won't go wrong in the future."
"But there are two in my family. Zhibo has always had his own opinions, so I won't talk about it. At least he has found a wife who is worthy of him. Ke Zhizong doesn't talk much, and his ideas are in his heart. He doesn't communicate with you or listen to you. you say."
My aunt was heartbroken and patted her chest.
"Ah Hui, I haven't slept well for the past few nights. Because of him, I really haven't slept well for several days. I can't eat well or sleep well, it's because of that bastard!"
Mother Su didn't even lift her eyelids, she wanted to say that she didn't miss a bite these days.
But my aunt is serious about being sad.
Thinking of the future of the eldest son, the aunt cried directly.
Both Su's mother and Su Nian'en thought it was just an act, but they didn't expect their aunt to actually cry, very sadly.
Su Nianen immediately brought a tissue.
"Aunt, don't be sad. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. If you are so anxious to get angry, your cousin won't listen, right? You might as well let go."
Mother Su signaled Su Nianen to eat quickly, and took Fubao out to play after eating.
Su Nianen understood what Su's mother meant, and quickly carried Fu Bao out.
When Su Nian'en left for a week, her aunt was dumbfounded and immediately turned her head away.
"How did Nian En leave?"
She hasn't said anything yet!
Su's mother saw that her aunt was begging her daughter for something, so she hurriedly let her go first.
Mother Su persuaded, "Don't be sad, let him solve it by himself when he grows up. We used to be kind, isn't it the same way."
My aunt immediately pricked up her ears to listen.
Su Nianen got married for the first time, and they all went too.
I heard that they belonged to the same school, and later they started their own small company. They are also young, promising and talented.
But it seems like it's been two years, and the people around him have changed?
Look, it's good to have a daughter, it's good!
"Nianentou is not bad, right? Of course, Xichuan is better now. If there is a better one, I just need to change it. A woman can't let herself be wronged in this life."
Mother Su glanced at her aunt lightly.
Do not cry?
When talking about other people's affairs, my aunt is very excited.
Su Mu said:
"Our family, Nianen, insisted on being with that one at first, but how could her father and I object, we refused to listen and insisted on getting married."
"If she really doesn't listen, she won't go back to this home. If she doesn't want this parent, she will be with that person. What can I do? I can't just rely on her."